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Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi ct   06/26/2017 11:27 AM  

Hi we have 2 years kid,we stay in upfloor,

the downfloor guy being Indian keep bothering us, that your kid is runing, jumping .

He is saying he will complain to 911, what to do in this case, the building management is not taking responsibility,

I cant restrict my 2 years kid or tie him to something not to move. Please suggest what will happens if we calls legally,

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi   06/26/2017 11:30 AM  

Simply fibnd ground floor or move out

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   H   06/26/2017 11:34 AM  

That person will not understand until he /she faces similar situations as you have now.
Only parents of kids knows what situations we are facing.

More over they are kids , they are not grown elders .

Kids will behave like that

My suggestion- if that worts neighbor will continue complain that this person is not making my kids to play.

If he says to vacate then ask him to sign lease for you in another apartment & pay rent for you also..


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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Dont worry   06/26/2017 11:50 AM  

911 can do nothing...so dont worry.
Maximum they can do is ask you to watch out your kid in future.

My friend was in similar situation and it ended up with guy chabging the apartment who was complaining them.

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   dweller   06/26/2017 11:52 AM  

Unbearable noise is against the law. It makes no difference what the source of it is. Insulate floor or maybe make arrangements with neighbor for allowable specific noise times or locations within unit.

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   P   06/26/2017 12:29 PM  

whoever has complaints or issue, they will move on ..stay put. you cannot do anything with a 2yr old. he has to run and play around during day, try and make a habit for your kid to sleep around 8 or sometime earlier.

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   20 years in USA   06/26/2017 01:01 PM  

Deal amicably as a friend.
I have seen many situations like this b4.
Except for complaining to you, they wont or cant do any thing.

If they call cops, cop would warn you at the most.


Every Indian wants something when he complains ) figure what he wants except noiseless upstairs.


carpet the floor/use extra area rugs.
You have advantage if apartment mngmt not involved in this.


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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi CT   06/26/2017 01:32 PM  

to all those who are giving suggestions, thank you so much.

want to share few other details

The issue is we are not aware of his personality before, he vacated 2 other families for the same reason those who have kids and we are 3rd one, if we vacate the appartment we are liable for rest of months money back to the management( asusual its 1 year fuckin agreement) in that case I am not sure why the apartment management giving the house to the people who are having kids. this is really getting stress for us, we can leave(afford) so much of money neither we can stay of nor stick here,

Thanks for the helpful suggestions.


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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   helper   06/26/2017 02:09 PM  

You can not know someone personality without talking to him.

Talk to him, Invite him and his family for lunch or dinner, try to find out common interest.

Most of the time it works.



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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   sk   06/26/2017 02:20 PM  

Its not a crime, he cant do anything. Put matresses in one of the room where they play. Next time move to lower floor flat/house

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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi   06/26/2017 03:16 PM  

Im also on level 2 ( first floor) with kid who plays all day.

If he complains to mgmnt, and they dont see any other soln but to move u to another apartment but you will not be entitled for new lease. If you choose to move, u have to sign a new lease.

Thats what i was told by my mgmnt when i was hesitant in occupying upper level with kid. Im in pavilions.

Dont worry and put area rug to reduce some noise like i did. Ultimately it depends on person but u dont hv to pay for it be it anything.

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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi   06/26/2017 03:18 PM  

eighbor what to do ?  Desi  06/26/2017 03:16 PM  Im also on level 2 ( first floor) with kid who plays all day.

If he complains to mgmnt and if they dont see any other soln but to move u to another apartment then you will not be entitled for a new lease. If you choose to move yourself, u have to sign a new lease.

Thats what i was told by my mgmnt when i was hesitant in occupying upper level with kid. Im in pavilions.

Dont worry and put area rug to reduce some noise like i did. Ultimately it depends on person but u dont hv to pay for it be it anything.

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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Lawyer   06/26/2017 03:22 PM  

He can't do anything about it. It's not like you're playing loud music at 1 AM on weekdays. A kid has to play. If he is threatening to call cops, let him. Cops can't do anything about it. They won't even say a thing, they will only take action if you are playing loud music in the middle of the night.

Secondly it's not your fault. The kid has to play. Probably the building is so weak that even if a kid walk or plays on the floor it causes disturbance. Management is at fault for not taking enough precautions.

I am sure your management didn't mention that kids are not allowed in the building. So you're not at fault. No one can do anything to you, either management or cops or that stupid guy.

So next time that guy threatens you, threaten him back to sue him for threatening you unnecessarily. Be brace!



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Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Lawyer   06/26/2017 03:24 PM  

And there is no need to move out. Let him complain to the management. They will have to give you a new apartment without charging you a dime. You can also vacant the apartment by telling management that the guy is threatening you. If you find the apartment not safe, the management can't charge you anything for breaking the lease.

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Ruhi   06/26/2017 11:25 PM  

See if he calls 911 also the cops will talk in favor of u since u have a kid .. same thing happened to a friend of mine
So no worries let him call 911

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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi   06/27/2017 01:14 AM  

M9ve to ground floor simple easy no headache so many place vacant if yu nedd call 2039774444

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Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi ct   06/27/2017 12:58 PM  

Thank you guys . No words to explain for you people who all are taking positively and advising appropriately. Wish my neighbor change his behavior and have some heart.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   ct desi   06/27/2017 02:33 PM  

WTF///Guys he complained to the management it seems earlier they didnt cared, second time he complainted again strongly,Management just send us the letter if we dont stop noice from the kid then we need to be evacuated.

This is literally bullshit, I called the building managemetn they are saying only compromise with below neighbour or vacate from the place

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   MG   06/27/2017 03:10 PM  

This is really bad..If the management terminates the lease you are not required to pay rent for remaining months.

better find a good ground floor apartment and move on.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi CT   06/27/2017 03:26 PM  

NO they are saying I have to pay the money until the apartment is re-filled.
Then why the hell they given apartment to the family who has children and years old.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Lawyer    06/27/2017 03:52 PM  

You don't have to pay a dime if they are going to evacuate you for this reason. You said the people who lived in the same apartment before you had to evacuate for the same reason. I believe management is upto something. I would recommend you to go on avvo.com and post your question there.

No way in the world management is suppose to do that. This is a great opportunity to sue them and take action against them so that future resident don't suffer. Make sure you read your lease papers and see if you see anything.

But I would highly recommend posting this question on www.avvo.com

You will get huge help from lawyers free of charge.

Please post if there are any developments.

Please don't give up to bullying, be brave and strong and stand against injustice.

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Help   06/27/2017 03:59 PM  

- put rugs or mattress where the kid jumps frequently.. the kids need to release their energy and will be jumpy. It's okay.
- no harm in approaching your neighbor friendly and socialise with the person.
- one thing is quite clear that your appartment mgmt is least concerned about the issue. They should have advised you in the first place to not lease that appt. As the mgmt is aware that your neighbor gets trouble due to noise and has managed to get the previous two families out.


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Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   M   06/27/2017 07:17 PM  

Tell ur neighbor to shift on top floor if he wants peace, if he is on ground floor he has to bear kids noise sounds. Don't give up and fight with management ..you r not doing anything wrong. Some people want ground floor with without noise..that z impossible

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Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   ct desi   06/27/2017 07:23 PM  

Yeah suggested already but He is not agreeing for shifting to upfloor !!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi   06/27/2017 09:03 PM  

Instead of wasting time here setup an appointment with management and your neighbor. Try to resolve the issue. If not then you can also call cops to arrange a compromise. In that case even management cannot force you to sign new lease. I would avoid personal interaction with neighbor. Wjat ever issues you have try resolving with a 3rd person involved like management. Stop getting scared of cops. They are here to help u..

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Khatarnak   06/27/2017 09:14 PM  

Keep a baseball bat handy , just in case...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Mohit   06/28/2017 08:12 AM  

Please share your apartment details, so other can avoid shifting to that apartment.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Advise   06/28/2017 11:44 AM  

I second that...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   M   06/28/2017 01:08 PM  

I second share appt name,

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   SK   06/28/2017 02:26 PM  

Feel sorry to hear whatever happened , Considering whoever stated here is True , Someone by any chance if we could share this thread to his arrogant neighbor ,may be he realize his mistakes after reading the responses ,Having said that ,you never know what could be his version of story ..:-|

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Sri   06/29/2017 03:02 AM  

So you took all the help needed and when it was your time to share apartment name, you diasspeared?

Lowlife!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi CT   06/29/2017 08:58 AM  

I am not disappeared I am wondering the people who are posting the same question with different names continously are you my neihbours or what?

If I can disclose the apartment name I am legally binded by the issue, I dont want to do that hope you understand.

I am talking to my lawyer once I filled legally then I disclose till then he asked me stay away disclosing those details.

Still if you are asking means you defintely some way or other realted to this issue. Good luck mate. Keep trying hard to reveal in open forum.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi   06/29/2017 09:26 AM  

No one z has time, intrest in ur appt name, in your prob, or in your neighbor . ppl here r giving u support and suggestions. Feeling bad for good ppl who gave u good advises

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Desi CT   06/29/2017 10:07 AM  

I can understand your curosity Mr Desi, as said due to legal issues I cant disclose in the open forum. Drop your email id, phone number and address , we will try to connect from there.





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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Sri   06/29/2017 10:22 AM  

Pathetic. Now you're blaming the people who helped you to be your neighbor.

Took all the help wanted and now when it's your turn to return the favor you won't do it.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   MG   06/29/2017 10:43 AM  

No body is asking your personal details dude,people are asking apartment details. You are on an open forum which runs on give and take. It looks like you only know how to take from forum not to give back.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   Resident   06/29/2017 11:30 AM  

Mr Sri & MG,

OPT is clearly communicating that he is not disclosing for obvious reasons, why are you so forcing and worrying so much.

If you are concerned for this try to take ground floor or else before taking top floor ask the down floor people whether they have any issues earlier and you have kid.

Now lets contribute to the rest of the people in the forum.

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Re: Issue with Neighbor what to do ?   AB   06/29/2017 04:51 PM  

I had similar problem few years back and here is what I did

Went to leasing office and explained my situation after giving a counter complaint that this family is harassing us ! I have given explanation that there are times few noise but his complaint was exaggerated and harassment with false allegations.

After that he never complained !!

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