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Concern   AK   03/21/2018 03:54 PM  

As I am writing this questions, I am not judging anybody but just wondering how many of you are comfortable with dropping your kids to just anybody who so eve puts an ad for baby sitting. I am sure there must be great baby sitters and for them also I have all the respect. But I fail to understand how can you just drop your kids to someone whom you hardly know. When we drop at daycares and other facilities they have to meet certain standards and rules and regulations. I wondering how to get that TRUST from an ad.

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Re: Concern   Ct Desi   03/21/2018 04:23 PM  

I wouldn't do it.

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Re: Concern   junglee   03/21/2018 09:12 PM  

Exactly - I don't think it's a very wise idea. I also fail to understand how people do it. The thing that is most precious is not your car or your bank account but your kid. They are totally dependent on us, and we should do everything to protect them even it means spending more money and finding 'expensive' day care. If you need occasional baby sitting then also there are official sites where people come with references backgroound checks etc. Nothing is fool proff, but better than choosing a total stranger and 'taking' a chance. Try http://www.211childcare.org/

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Re: Concern   Clear   03/21/2018 09:19 PM  

If you are really concern then y don’t you just take care of your kid sitting at home?

Ohh you have job right? Did you ever thought how did you got first job? Not having any exp?

So bottom line is trust. If you don’t trust yourself then you don’t trust your shadow also

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Re: Re: Concern   shut your mouth up   03/21/2018 09:27 PM  

hahaahah illegal daycare worker spotted above me.

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Re: Re: Re: Concern   Hmmm   03/21/2018 09:36 PM  

(at) Clear: there is a huge difference between trust and blind trust. Trust is something that you make over a time period and blind trust is just when you fall for anything without any prior experience with the person or incidence.

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Re: Re: Re: Concern   Clear   03/21/2018 10:16 PM  

I don’t have any day care business...


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Clear   03/21/2018 10:20 PM  

I did not say blind trust...and I don’t think anyone put their kids at strangers house. You can build/break relationship/trust after few days. It won’t take more than a week or at most a month.

If you like then your mouth word help them to get more kids...if you don’t like then their business will never improve.

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Re: Re: Re: Concern   Legal meaning?   03/21/2018 10:23 PM  

Are you doing everything 100% legal??? You did not fake your exp? You never lied in your life?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Legal meaning sorted   03/22/2018 12:17 AM  

To legal meaning...lying or faking experience is the topic concerned to an adult who is independent and know what he is doing.. Here we r talking about kid...KID

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   urid   03/22/2018 08:13 AM  

Clear what is your point? Are you agreeing with the origoinal poster or not? You seem to be missing the point here completely. No one is saying not to send kids to day care / baby sitting. The point is if someone puts a post on this site for example , would you send you kid to them without knowing anything about them?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Clear   03/22/2018 08:21 AM  

I am not understating the main point here? Did that person sent kids to unknown persons and got affected? Or just like that posted topic here?

I don’t think anyone of us drop their kids at the strangers house without knowing them directly or indirectly. If you do or done then you are an idiot and not knowing the min responsibility as a responsible parent.

So this topic itself is useless. Don’t expect any more responses from me.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   toclear   03/22/2018 08:52 AM  

"I don’t think anyone of us drop their kids at the strangers house without knowing them directly or indirectly."

Do you know that for a fact? Have you checked thoroughly? Did you ask every single parent ?

If the anser is no then you do not know for sure. Sometimes the point could be to warn others from making bad chocies. It's good you do not send and better is no one sends. But if someone is thinking of doing it, then let this serve as something to think about?

BTW, you do show a lack of maturity and need to grow up.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Ravi   03/22/2018 11:19 AM  

Not pointing fingers at anyone but so many times I have seen posts on this forum where parents are asking about baby sitter. That is the concern. When you are asking here, you are basically any random person to take care of your child. Just a thought!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   to the original poster   03/22/2018 02:16 PM  


to the original poster: pls take care of your kids. people can take care of their kids. is it really your concern? or can you help them?

or is it you are trying to open your business and starting with a dhamaka!!!!!!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Sprite   03/22/2018 03:19 PM  

seems the thread starter just created a topic for the name sake. You bloody buy a 5$ product on amazon after reading 100 odd reviews and comparing them with other products and sellers - why would anyone leave their kid at a place which has no good rating or not reviewed and verified.

Come on - make some sense.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   readbeforeopeningmouth   03/22/2018 04:23 PM  

Sprite, to give you some context read this:

http://www.ctdesi.com/connecticut-indian/index.php?forum_id=7?select=113189&forum_id=7&tid=113189&pos=10009

http://www.ctdesi.com/connecticut-indian/view.php?select=72756&forum_id=0&pos=01679

http://www.ctdesi.com/connecticut-indian/view.php?select=82783&forum_id=0&tid=82783&pos=10009

http://ctdesi.com/connecticut-indian/view.php?select=63682&forum_id=0&pos=04901

http://www.ctdesi.com/connecticut-indian/view.php?select=66594&forum_id=0&pos=03578

And Yes people look for hundreds of reviews while buying $5 worth of products but some idiots don't check anything before hiring/sending kids for day care. The thread seems to be to warn such idiots.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Sprite    03/22/2018 04:32 PM  

no need to even read thru this you nuts. its simple, people who post ads want to make money. some might be very genuine and some might surely be nasty.

Its upto you to decide where to send your kid, isnt it? No use of warning people based on your perceptions. There might be some good home day cares that indians run for indian kids too. You kindly dont genralize.
Keep your apprehensions with you and let parents decide whats best for their child.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Matterclose   03/22/2018 05:02 PM  

Why you are worrying about others kids? Worry about your kids and safeguard them and give good life.

You don’t need to be stressed out thinking about others kids. Those kids have their parents to take care.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Watchyourback   03/22/2018 05:04 PM  

Watch your back before you say anything about others in the public forum. How dare you to categorize the parents as idiots?

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   To original poster   03/22/2018 06:57 PM  

Exactly....
How dare you to categorize parent?
Oil in your own business. Make your kid happy and stay happy.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Your well wisher   03/22/2018 07:07 PM  

There are so many poor street people raising their kids in street.
You don't have the right to question on parent's eligibility or capability.

If you have this much concern pls go and help them else keep your mouth shut.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Concern   Sorted   03/23/2018 12:10 AM  

See all daycares are reacting now...no not in a million years i send my baby to unknown not registered not reputed no background criminal record check day care centers ever. If i send and god forbid something happen then atleast i dont pretend to be victim and gain sympathy

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