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Wife watching ex-bf FB    Cc desi   01/11/2021 02:39 PM  
Wife watching ex boy friend fb, we been married 6 years with kids. I saw her FB search and she is still watching her bf fb. I come to know her love story after marriage and warned her, she cried and said ok but after so many years like this
do I need to take it seriously or just keep monitoring or what shall I do?

Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    Good luck   01/12/2021 07:35 AM  
Assuming the story is true...

If she is still thinking of ex BF, there is something wrong with you.. find out whats ur shortfall..ask her openly... fix the problem.... Doubting not worth.. likes dislikes only can be changed with better opportunities, exposure to overcome past likes....

Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    all the best   01/12/2021 10:04 AM  
Good luck is right. If she is looking into old memories issue is with you interaction and communication. In today world none can be stopped in any way other than good love and understanding

Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    CC Desi   01/12/2021 10:56 AM  
Is it not coming under cheating?
If I ask her openly will she admit it? what the fxuk wrong with me, She has kids she need ot know what she is doing.

Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    Good luck   01/12/2021 11:32 AM  
May be she already know, that u r doubting her and checking her browsing history....(if she knows that, u r driving yourself much far from her..... that's a big mistake by any spouse to doubt or spy on other half.

All woman/men wants is a happy family, little bit off the line is not an issue as long as you both know about it.. its just a way of relaxing...

sit and talk... u feel very light... the struggle or pain is in NOT TALKING about it.... relax

Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    Ct despo   01/12/2021 04:57 PM  
Lol CCDesi babiji ka(apka wife ka) number dena, thanks in advance. I will also check my luck .

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    advice   01/13/2021 12:18 PM  
if she is looking into someone, it wont be for any physical connections. Its for emotional connections. It depicts that you dont have any emotional connection or conversations with her. Having kids doesn't change emotional loneliness

Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    think    01/13/2021 12:20 PM  
its just FB. You need to have better conversations with her. Keeping a good friendship is the basis of any relation. When you lack that issues begin.

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    Therapist   01/14/2021 03:01 PM  
Hello ,
I think first of all u logging into her fb and looking into search is your mistake , it means you are insecured of your own wife and do not trust her.

2. spying on her fb profile means u don't trust her and is insecured, she needs her own space , give it to her

3. Just seeing her ex profile do not mean that she is cheating on u, there might be reasons she is visiting her page, but most important is she decided to stay with you and have a kid with you and that's what important.

4. one of the reason she might visit her ex page is may be she is not getting the same love and respect from u which she was getting from her ex.

Hence try to understand her, love her , respect her , fulfill her demands , if u can do this , believe me she will never even dare to see any random guys fb .

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    Therapist   01/14/2021 03:10 PM  
Most important is as you have already seen her fb, and if u are not having mental peace, just confront her , ask her politely and be cool, and have peaceful talk and mutual discussion if anything is bothering her sort it out by talking.

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    Ct Guy   01/16/2021 09:29 AM  
ha ha sahi bola.
Why dont I dont find that kind of aunties in my neighbour hood we checked our luck too

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    Help needed   01/19/2021 10:45 AM  
Therapists words are absolutely true. women go for other shoulders when they are emotionally hurted.

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    sofi   01/19/2021 11:20 AM  
crying over others shoulders... 100% true.
And its a insulting to husbands! ( other men ready to show warm shoulder for these woman)...

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Wife watching ex-bf FB    cc chowdary   01/19/2021 03:09 PM  
Thats right Sofi,

Husbands work day and night and this girls keep watching other mens hot photos or old phots

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