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WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   WELLWISHER   11/23/2017 09:25 PM  

I am an Indian but I feel sorry for the people that have moved here that needs basic civil lesson.

This country is not INDIA and when you come here don't behave as it is INDIA. No wonder people hate you for how you behave and smell.

Thanksgiving had big lines today

1. Skipping lines was number one issue. People should know better to go back in line and wait for your number.
2. People will find friends and skip line like nobody else is looking.
3. Elder parents will come in again at the gate to get $10 coupons at JCpenny. Managers at JCPENNY are fed up of INDIANS because of double couponing.
4. There were many parents with kids. Other should be considerate of kids and make sure not injure the kids. Most of them would act like they have not seen anything without being inconsiderate of kids around them.
5. People will hog up with only one item which is free take 5-6 of them or more and not be considerate of others.

Most of you guys are engineers and professionals, but there is a way of acting. Most of the items that are free and are free every year. Thanksgiving is a giving festival and that is what America stands for - giving. DON'T make it about greed.

No wonder people from here don't like you guys and want you out. Don't give them another reason to throw you out of this country.

If you are one of the above mentioned person, hope you think about it and act as if you are in US.

Happy Thanksgiving!

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Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   E   11/23/2017 10:23 PM  

I second that.. I faced similar situation today in Buckland Walmart.. people were in queue and our desi folks start their own queue or get into line from anywhere.. no common sense at all..

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Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   J   11/23/2017 11:36 PM  

I see most of your complaints are about shopping. Looks like you went for a Black Friday deal to save money and were disappointed. I am not judging you but it’s wronf that you are judging other indians for trying to save money. I am not sure if you came here on h1 or a student visa but I am a citizen of the US. And trust me not only indians even African American do that.

Why not save money where we can? You went for shopping on Black Friday so did they, to save money. You didn’t like their behavior but at the end of the day, they were just trying to save.

But anyways I agree with you on few things, indians need to change their behavior.

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Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   WELLWISHER   11/24/2017 12:36 AM  

Most of the stuff you can get it online well in advance. There are more free stuff online if you look through as in store.

INDIANS feel good by cutting other people line seems like. The other person doesn't say anything doesn't mean you do it again and again.

After going through shopping where people cut through the lines and act greedy, REPEATEDLY, you end up thinking,
"WHY DID I GO FOR SHOPPING TODAY!"

Everybody wants to have fun at the shopping event but showing GREED is not going to get you more.

Just think for once as how to be nice to others.

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Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Leea   11/24/2017 04:54 AM  

I am a citizen of this country, the fact of the matter is that some of this trashy indian public is out shopping catching deals which is fine but just needs to be courteous of their surroundings. African Americans are no where comparable to these Indians that came from India on H1 or visitor visa. These fellow Indians behave like wild animals that just got loose in the jungle. They were pushing and not watching their surrounding and hitting kids and adults today at Macy's. Greed can get the best of person but it should not be to this extent. Thanksgiving sales are great but why can't these Indians that came from India and that are tagging their parents along to get free deals and other valuable deals behave in a civil matter ?
Do you guys behave and act like that in India? No because there is no black friday sales in india and you have a social reputation their so you would think act like an loose animal.



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Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Yes i agree with you   11/24/2017 08:18 AM  

I completely agree similar situation i hv seen for the past years but recently yes ine nice eloquent elder female just on a regular day entered from the gate EXIT rather than sign marked Enter and she randomly kind of pushed a little girl who is making Exit at the same time her rude behavour towards a little girl made me to stop that elder female and queation her but people around already said oh my God and she went inside as if its not for her..Not only on Thanksgiving or christnas or BF many of us behave very derogatory way in and around public and they can easily endanger kids no matter what they have to get it what they want by any means no matter what where and how..save money get deals get coupons do everything and anything but be considerate atleast here.. India is out of question atleast out of India learn the stuff.




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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Huh    11/24/2017 08:25 AM  

Oh Leea my Dear. U dont have any Idea how they act in India. Trust me as u hv said they acted like this and that on thanksgiving or black friday they act everyday like that in India and someone said im a citizen in above msgs and said african american or way worse u r wrong and i cant believe u r a citizen. Us Indians are way worse than anybody else hurting kids is common to them that the reason i sat at home watching tv and playing games with my babies rather than going out n getting hurt with this nasties

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Desi   11/24/2017 08:43 AM  

Agree here. Its all in our blood and its fault how we grown ourselves from childhood and responsible people are parents , relatives, neighbor.

Are we most greedy/fealthy people on earth.

The only best thing we can do here is we can teach new generation ,out kids on good manners.Rest is not going to change

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   sur   11/24/2017 10:27 AM  

I completely agree with you. Last night i went to buckland hills mall. I dont want to go because I have seen many thanks giving deals across multiple states in the past years. But I did because my wife want to go for atleast having some shopping fun.

I experienced standing in line for almost 3 hours, because many indians inviting their friends to join them. Not only that some people entered abruptly in middle. Even more worse, some people taking many items without proper calculation in advance and end up removing items, adding items and all kinds of things at counter

To add to this, the worst and most funny thing is , LOL- I see one parent with sweater , monkey cap, sports shoes sleeping on JC penny beds near the counter and he is snoaring. One JC penny store lady walking through that and I see she is shaking her head and pronouncing herself as F__K. I still remember that scene and laughed

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   sur   11/24/2017 10:27 AM  

I completely agree with you. Last night i went to buckland hills mall. I dont want to go because I have seen many thanks giving deals across multiple states in the past years. But I did because my wife want to go for atleast having some shopping fun.

I experienced standing in line for almost 3 hours, because many indians inviting their friends to join them. Not only that some people entered abruptly in middle. Even more worse, some people taking many items without proper calculation in advance and end up removing items, adding items and all kinds of things at counter

To add to this, the worst and most funny thing is , LOL- I see one parent with sweater , monkey cap, sports shoes sleeping on JC penny beds near the counter and he is snoaring. One JC penny store lady walking through that and I see she is shaking her head and pronouncing herself as F__K. I still remember that scene and laughed

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Comedy but sad   11/24/2017 11:14 AM  

For sure parents who came on visitor visa won't do on their own. Our H1B partner may told his dad to use it...

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   should change   11/24/2017 11:55 AM  

I am in USA for 5 years, been there only once and never go for shopping on thanksgiving days.

MOST of the time, shopping on these days are not from husbands choice. mostly it's from greedy wife.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   tanu   11/24/2017 12:05 PM  

what are your mens problem, if your wife wants to have some shopping fun. stop blaming your wives for everything, we also have life, we also want to go for shopping.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   my 3 cents   11/24/2017 12:12 PM  

Don't bring Men or women topic here. V all have to think about behavior. We cannot change every one, but lets teach out new generation. We came here to save some money along with that we can also carry some good habit for our younger generation. Take it positive and go high.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   sur   11/24/2017 12:58 PM  

Yeah its not men and women. We all love their women(wife)

Bottom line is be like a roman in rome ...just like the saying we need to maintain low profile whereever needed,like maintaining healthy atmosphere when we go outside in terms of maintaining queue and rest all

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Curious indian   11/25/2017 08:20 AM  

Cant disagree with above line of discussion except the men n women part.

Moreover, some desis think its ok for them to act like that bcoz they r smarter and can do so without others objection or noticing, which is not the case usually. Its just that ppl r nice n dont call u asshole at ur face. Do it in india n u can get a flurry of BC MC hurled at u in no time.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Curious indian   11/25/2017 08:23 AM  

Also, though a bit unrelated - some feel tgey can do so bcoz they r superior in terms of culture, race or heritage or whatever and they can do whatever they want - skip lines, be rude, not respond to greetings etc.
A big middle finger to such losers and a humble reauest to them to go back to the superior culture!

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Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   ctvisitor   11/26/2017 12:32 AM  

I agree with some facts and regret for the situation. but is it fair to tag it to the complete Indian race? Not fair. check out YouTube there are thousands of videos showing Black Friday fights which include people from all races and regions. The fact of the matter is there is greediness everywhere and when it happens there is a tendency to point the fact that you don’t like...,stop pointing a race and shout at the misbehaviour.
If you have noticed Walmart and target have security forces helping the situation, same should have been done to avoid this in macys.


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   Wellwisher   11/26/2017 04:45 AM  

You are saying cutting through lines is a normal thing in US?
It is normal for People in US to not consider kids around them and injure them?
Double couponing with parents by asking them to enter the gate again is normal?


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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   ctvisitor   11/26/2017 10:20 AM  

Of course it is not normal, whoever did it should regret.but there are many instances of fights on Black Fridays everywhere and there are many videos showing the same.greediness comes in many forms, here is another form of it.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   E   11/26/2017 10:26 AM  

Then why can't Indians be an exception and be more sensible.. why do you want to justify indecent behavior of few by comparing with other races.. Just because some others do it, why should we also do it. Aren't we superior as humans and not behave like being in herd.

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Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: WHY INDIANS BEHAVE AS IT IS LIKE INDIA IN US?   my 3 cents   11/27/2017 09:59 AM  

This may be the last time it will be like this. For the first time, online sales were higher during Black Friday than at B&M stores. The trend is only going to increase. From a couple of years I have not bought anything significant around black Friday from B&M stores and this year I didn't even bother to visit. I'm sure a lot of you will not visit B&M stores next year ending all this drama.

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